Positive, Creative Leadership Skills

Some people have been cocooned and coddled all their life and than tossed out into the big world without any experience, knowledge, or advice. The concept of leadership is unknown. Others never had anyone to coddle or cocoon them and are 'street-wise' beyond their age because all they were doing is trying to survive. It's called Instinct. And all they know is leadership skills, but have no idea that's what it's called.
 Everyone has a story. Everyone has a reason, and Everyone is still responsible for their own choices and decisions in life no matter what has happened to them. It doesn't mean you can't be young at heart anymore. 'Can't' isn't a word in my vocabulary. A person will and can do and does do whatever he chooses to. But. Every decision creates an action and therefore consequences or 'effects' are set into place. What kind of consequences are you choosing to have? Create positive thoughts and you have positive actions, and therefore positive consequences.
In the end it's all about knowing how to lead yourself. If you can lead yourself others will naturally follow. Learn to listen to yourself, but don't follow. You set the rules because you are looking for a certain outcome. Don't mind fear. It is the weakest and most cowardly of emotions. Pay attention. It will literally save your life. Focus. Ignore distractions that don't help you attain your goals/outcome. Always keep moving. Forward. Positive (and only positive) changes. Watch your dreams unfold. Be careful when you get pushy. It's like word itself. When you push something it doesn't come closer. It goes away. And like the scientific equation: what goes in one direction also goes in the other direction with equal force. Start acting how you want others to act. It will create a domino effect.
Lead using you. Create a positive difference. Everyone is needed for this campaign! Everyone has a place! Together we can make a difference, and like always teamwork divides the work and multiplies the success! Your Leadership of your own being has just exploded into insane proportions! (Just don't let it go to your head or you will loose it all).
Good luck on your Personal Challenge!